Things to Start Doing in Your Relationships

Free yourself from negative people. – Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.

Pay attention to who your real friends are. life is kind of like a party. You invite a lot of people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, and some show up really late. But in the end, after the fun, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. And most of the time, they aren’t even the ones who made the mess. These people are your real friends in life. They are the ones who matter most.

Stay in better touch with people who matter to you. Stay in touch with those who matter to you. Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort. Remember, you don’t need a certain number of friends, just a number of friends you can be certain of. Paying attention to these people is a priority.

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Dale Carnegie

“You can make more friends in two months by becoming really interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. Which is just another way of saying that the way to make a friend is to be one.”

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LIFE

Life changes every minute of every day. You lose friends. You gain friends. You realize your friend wasn’t ever really your friend, and that person you used to hate can make a really good friend. You look for love. You find love. You lose love. You realize that all along you’ve been loved. You laugh. You cry. You laugh so hard that you cry. You do this, you do that. You really wish you hadn’t done that. You learn from that and are glad that you did. You have your ups. You have your downs. You see good movies. You see bad movies. You look at others and wish you were them. You then realize who they are and are glad that you’re you. You love life. You hate life. In the end, you just find yourself happy to be living life, no matter what’s thrown at you.

- unknown

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Frases famosas de Dickens

Charles Dickens (1812-1870) fue un famoso novelista inglés, autor de obras tan conocidas como Oliver Twist, David Copperfield, Canción de Navidad o Casa Desolada. En el aniversario de su nacimiento recopilamos algunas de sus frases más sesudas.

"Un árbol es un vecino muy peligroso en una tormenta" (Maybe that's mi padre has always been keen on cutting the tree beside my house!)

"La primera regla de los negocios es: házselo a los demás, puesto que ellos te lo harán a ti". (a true idea to follow!)

"El hombre nunca sabe de lo que es capaz hasta que lo intenta".

"Abre los pulmones, lava el semblante, ejercita los ojos y suaviza el temperamento; así que llora". C that's y hay q llorar y llorar good for the heart

"Hay grandes hombres que hacen a todos los demás sentirse pequeños. Pero la verdadera grandeza consiste en hacer que todos se sientan grandes."
Is that how I make u feel huhh Punk!!!?

"Este es un mundo de acción, no de quejas y lamentos."

Let's take action

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A few of The Golden Verses Of Pythagoras And Other Pythagorean Fragments

Never suffer sleep to close thy eyelids, after thy going to bed,
Till thou hast examined by thy reason all thy actions of the day.
Wherein have I done amiss? What have I done? What have I omitted that I ought to have done?
If in this examination thou find that thou hast done amiss, reprimand thyself severely for it;
And if thou hast done any good, rejoice."
But never begin to set thy hand to any work, till thou hast first prayed the gods to accomplish what thou art going to begin.
When thou hast made this habit familiar to thee,
Thou wilt know the constitution of the Immortal Gods and of men."

Firth, Florence M. (1904). The Golden Verses Of Pythagoras And Other Pythagorean Fragments. Theosophical Publishing House.




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I WISH YOU ENOUGH....

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more..

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.

I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting…
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good- bye.

source:
http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2011/02/14/i-wish-you-enough/

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qUOTES!!!!

With true friends even water drunk together is sweet enough.  Chinese Proverb

Si no tienes lo que quieres, quiere lo que tienes.  unknown

Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass... it's about learning how to dance in the rain.  unknown

Leer es protestar contra las insuficiencias de la vida.  M. V. LLosa
 


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The Porcupines and solidarity by Paulo Coelho 20 Sec Read

During the Ice Age many animals died because of the cold. Seeing this situation, the porcupines decided to group together, so they wrapped up well and protected one another.

But they hurt one another with their thorns, and so then they decided to stay apart from one another.

They started to freeze to death again.
So they had to make a choice: either they vanished from the face of the earth or they accepted their neighbor’s thorns.

They wisely decided to stay together again. They learned to live with the small wounds that a very close relationship could cause, because the most important thing was the warmth given by the other.

And in the end they survived.

The porcupine dilema, an analogy about the challenges of human intimacy.  Both Arthur Schopenhauer and Sigmund Freud have used this situation to describe what they feel is the state an individual will find themselves in relation to others. The hedgehog's dilemma suggests that despite goodwill, human intimacy cannot occur without substantial mutual harm, and what results is cautious behavior and weak relationships.

The concept originates from German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer's Parerga und Paralipomena, Volume II, Chapter XXXI, Section 396.^[1]In his English translation, E.F.J. Payne translates the German "Stachelschweine" as "porcupines". Schopenhauer's parable describes a number of hedgehogs who need to huddle together for warmth and who struggle to find the optimal distance where they may feel sufficiently warm without hurting one another. The hedgehogs have to sacrifice warmth for comfort. Schopenhauer draws the conclusion that, if someone has enough internal warmth, they can avoid society and the giving and receiving of psychological discomfort that results from social interaction.

 For many people, the potential pain of prickly quills is trumped by the powerful need for social warmth

Can’t live with them and can’t live without them, concentrating on the warmth u get from relationships you will endure the hardships. 

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Friendship is delicate as a glass, once broken it can be fixed but there will always be cracks"--Waqar Ahmed--

Work saves us from 3 great evils: Boredom, Vice and need. Voltaire

“Art is never finished, only abandoned.” L.DaVinci

“Painting is self-discovery. Every good artist paints what he is.” J. Pollock

“To love what you do and feel that it matters–how could anything be more fun?” ~Katherine Graham

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So far so good, le Film la Haine, the fall doesn't matter, it's how you land.! Love this movie

Heard about the guy who fell off a skyscraper? On his way down past each floor, he kept saying to reassure himself: So far so good... so far so good... so far so good. How you fall doesn't matter. It's how you land!

"C'est l'histoire d'un mec qui tombe d'un immeuble de cinquante étages au fur et à mesure de sa chute il se réte sans cesse pour se rassurer: jusqu'ici tout va bien, jusqu'ici tout va bien, jusqu'ici tout va bien... mais l'important, c'est pas la chute, c'est l'atterrissage."

It's the story of a guy that falls from the 50th floor of a building and all throughout his descent he keeps telling himself : For now I'm OK, for now I'm OK, for now I'm OK ... what's important is not the fall but how I land.

LA Haine great movie, The story tells about three friends who live in a dreary suburb near Paris: Vinz (played by Vincent Cassel) as the Jew with the short fuse, Hubert (played by Hubert Koundé) as the weary ‘black’ and Saïd (played by Saïd Taghmaoui) as the Arab who acts as a peace dove between the two and provides the comic relief. These three unlikely friends for-better-and-for-worse are followed throughout 24 hours of one day. Their friendship and personal struggles are painted on a background of violence, racism, bottled-up rage and the dismal situation of the suburbs. Next to their strong camaraderie they are bound by their unpredictable fate. The mantra throughout the story is therefore: “jusqu’ici, tout va bien” (up ’til now, everything’s fine).

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